Religious affiliation is not the only criteria when selecting a spouse. Seeing his mom, being the pillar of his family, scares me to think I will not be as strong as her, since I have always been the pampered child since young. She will probably feel persecuted and attacked if you try. She will be surprised that a non-Mormon holds the same values she does and respect you. And then run from this girl if you don't think there's a chance she'll wake up.
Then, do any of the above morsels of advice matter. And he needs to trust his instincts if he thinks she's being dishonest. This happened to me, and it took me forever to get out of the cult. That said, Mormons have learned to have fun without alcohol and often have to wait until drinkers are well-oiled and loosened up to join in the dopey-ness. Either way, if you have kids and you don't convert, she will divorce you and take your kids away from you and you will be shunned from her community.
Log in or sign up in seconds. I have been a doctor's wife for 1 year now and we've been together for 7 years. These girls are nervous around non-Mormons. His job prevents you much access to him. And once you are done with those, ask about social issues and where she stands. He wanted our kids exposed to Christianity for intellectual reasons and likes the community.
The goal of dating at that age is to broaden your social circle and learn more about yourself. I'm dating a Mormon girl right now but we both understand that it is most likely isn't going to last long. It's tough to date a med student let alone a resident.